You teach people how to treat you

Hey everyone. New blog post is up. It is inspired by Kirk and Rasheeda Frost reuniting. Hope you enjoy it.

Many men and women stay in relationships longer than they should with people who don't  love them. I can let that slide if it was one person who really captured your heart. But if that is dating pattern then we need to talk.

First things first is if you are staying for the money, every time these men produce children from extramarital affairs, that depletes the amount of money that your children with him stand to inherit.

Secondly, a person can never really love you if they engage in behaviour they know will hurt you whether physically or emotionally. They are putting you at risk for sexually transmitted infections and diseases.

Thirdly, serial cheaters and liars do not love themselves. Anyone who loves themselves would not put their health or livelihood at risk.

Fourth, you may say ooh I have money now. But where is your self respect? Serial cheaters have no respect for you, no matter how much you curse them out. Withholding sex wouldn't matter either. You aren't  special. They don't love you. They love that they can fall back on you. You are a security blanket.

When all said and done, you are either bitter or angry and someone who comes along who may be your blessing, you may reject them. In some cases, you move on and you end up settling for someone you have nothing in common with, you aren't equally yoked with, all because at least he or she doesn't cheat.